Rosehedge/Multifaith Works Blog

Friday, January 20, 2012

Our Transitional Housing

Working in the Transitional Housing Program over the last six years has been a challenging and heart-warming chapter in my life, both as a social worker and  a compassionate fellow citizen of Seattle.  I have shared the experiences and journey of many homeless men and women with HIV/AIDS as they have faced struggles with mental health and drug issues, confronted loneliness, developed independent living skills and moved onward to self-sufficiency in permanent housing.  Many understand, as they are going through the program, how living in a communal environment promotes understanding, tolerance, flexibility, the strengthening of problem-solving skills and  the confidence that, armed with a strong personal support network, a well-lived life is possible.  Some realize only upon leaving, that there really was a purpose for the expectations and activities that are a part of our housing program.  I’d like to share a few resident experiences and comments, with fictitious names for anonymity, so you can get a glimpse of this transformative process.

Henry spent nearly two years in our Transitional Program and was unhappy with the independent living arrangements offered at the end of his stay.  He was known to complain about our program rules and tended to get into conflicts with new residents.  He struggled with mood issues and was often critical of his providers, believing that they were not helping him enough.  Before we knew him, Henry had a prominent career in the healthcare field, one with meaning and purpose.  Now, all that was gone and he had to reassemble a life from all he had lost….Henry has stayed in touch with our program staff and shared his story with our current residents at a recent dinner gathering.…Here are his words from an email sent to me last fall…

    “……  Although I know I was a pain in the butt, please know that your unwavering regard for your vocation and your dedication to your organizations ethic, made it possible for me to survive the worst days of my life and come through with renewed hope, and refashioned ideals to see me forward.  I am saying ‘thank you’ to those who have influenced my life….”

Jorge, a housing resident born in Mexico, recently moved into an apartment of his own, something he never expected in his wildest dreams.  He completed our two year program and received an extension to remain with us because another housing option couldn’t be located due to his undocumented status and recent loss of his part-time job.   A religious man, he was overjoyed at hearing about an available apartment and declared it was miracle from God!  He had often said to staff –“I love you guys!”  But now we were hearing this every time we saw him!  Even though he now has a permanent place to live, he continues to be challenged economically and lives a long bus ride away from his primary support networks.  He has asked to stay in touch with us and we very glad to remain a part of his life.

Another resident in our program, one in our recovery house, often expresses his gratitude for housing and our support services.  Joe spent time in prison and has now written a book about his life growing up in East L.A.  He entered our program when he became homeless after his long-time friend and roommate died.   Joe calls us “good people.”

Monday, January 9, 2012

Wearing the Ribbon

With this past year being the 30th anniversary of the first AIDS diagnosis, there were more news articles regarding AIDS than usual.

One that caught my eye was written by a man who stated that the reason people wear the red ribbon is because it makes them feel good about themselves for giving.  Hmmmm. That gave me reason to think, "Is that why I wear the ribbon?".

I do not deny that I am proud of being associated with this agency and my 13 years of volunteering and financial support, but is that why I wear my ribbon?

This year in late November, as I was getting ready for church, I pinned my favorite ribbon to my sweater.  I have several, some fabric, some ceramic, one intertwined with a cross, (I even have one that lights up and blinks!), but my favorite is a wide, deep red satin one that I believe came in an AMFAR solicitation.  Then, a couple weeks before World AIDS Day, I asked my seamstress co-worker to duplicate this ribbon so that I could give one to everyone sitting at my table at the Stronger Together Breakfast.  Everyone at my table left that breakfast wearing the ribbon.  Lastly, a few days before World AIDS Day, I changed my profile picture on Facebook to a big red ribbon!

So, why DO I wear the ribbon?  I like to think it is so the friends I have lost in the past 30 years, know that they have not been forgotten, that they were an important part of my life.  It is also to remind people that AIDS is not over.  Most importantly, it is to show my friends living with AIDS that they are not alone; we continue the work, we will continue to support them until there is a cure.

Lizann Jones
President, Board of Directors
Rosehedge/Multifaith Works